[ssgjohnson]

Thanks for all the inputs and view points guys. I mostly posted the topic out of a combination of boredom and curiosity. I was upset at the time i originally posted this due to an argument i was having on this topic with an individual that felt she could impart her wisdom on me because she is older than me and "successfully" raised a child that is now 21...(has no job, barely finished HS, and is a general screw up...but he's such a sweet boy!) Im done being bored now... thanks!